Wednesday, September 30, 2026

Leadership Rules

 

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Leaderhip

Comment SIMPLE and I will send you the Doc! 👇👇. Walking into a new team as their leader is tough, you haven't earned their trust yet. Here are 15 phrases to start building it from day one:


1️⃣ "I'm not here to change everything. I'm here to understand what's working first."

→ Removes the fear of instant disruption.


2️⃣ "Tell me what's been frustrating you. I want to hear it before I form opinions."

→ Signals you listen before leading.


3️⃣ "What do you need from me to do your best work?"

→ Tells them everything about your leadership style.


4️⃣ "I don't have all the answers yet. I'm leaning on you while I get up to speed."

→ Honesty builds more trust than pretending.


5️⃣ "My door is genuinely open. I mean that."

→ Powerful if you back it up.


6️⃣ "I want to know what you're actually good at, not just what your job description says."

→ Sees the person, not just the role.


7️⃣ "If something isn't working, tell me before it becomes a bigger problem."

→ Welcomes radical honesty.


8️⃣ "I'm going to make mistakes. Tell me when I do."

→ Admitting fallibility disarms the room.


9️⃣ "You were here before me. You know things I don't, and I want to learn them."

→ Respects their experience.


🔟 "I'm not going to judge you on what happened before I got here."

→ Offers a fresh, clean slate.


1️⃣1️⃣ "Here's what I value most in people. I wanted you to know that upfront."

→ Transparency sets clear expectations.


1️⃣2️⃣ "I want to catch up with each of you 1-on-1 over the next two weeks."

→ Shows individual investment.


1️⃣3️⃣ "What's one thing this team does really well that you hope stays the same?"

→ Protects what's already working.


1️⃣4️⃣ "What's one thing you'd change if you could?"

→ Gives them an immediate voice.


1️⃣5️⃣ "I'm glad to be here. And I mean that."

→ Warmth lands every time.


Trust isn't built in one big moment, it's built in the first ten small ones.

Opening for Speech or Workshop

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I’ve delivered speeches and workshops to companies like Oracle NetSuite, Spotify, & Hilton, from intimate groups to thousands, here are 10 public speaking lessons I’ve learned:

1. Don’t share a story to make yourself look significant. Share it to make your audience feel significant.

2. Most people practice how they’ll start, but very few rehearse how they’ll finish.

3. Enjoy it. People who look like they’re having fun are magnetic.

4. Want buy-in for your ideas? Share social proof in the form of a story.

5. The more comfortable you become in your own skin, the more potent you become as a speaker.

6. Instead of teaching 100% of what you know with 10% depth, teach 10% of what’s relevant with 100% depth.

7. Amateurs wing it. Professionals make it look like they’re winging it.

8. Think like a comedian. Practice your talk in low-stakes scenarios so you’ve worked out the kinks for high-stakes scenarios.

9. Just like an actor shows range in a movie, a speaker should show range in their talk.

10. Watch back your talks like you’re an athlete watching game tape. Test, tweak, and iterate.


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Monday, September 28, 2026

Prompt Strategy - 100 ChatGPT Commands for Photo Editing



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Top Header & Title:

  • 100 ChatGPT Commands for Photo Editing

  • Edit, Create, Transform

  • Just a Prompt Away

  • Better Photos, Happier Stories ♡

List of Commands (1–100):

  1. /cinematicportrait

  2. /dslrlook

  3. /professionalretouch

  4. /naturalskin

  5. /skintretouch

  6. /portraitenhance

  7. /facialenhance

  8. /sharpdetails

  9. /softportrait

  10. /studioportrait

  11. /luxuryportrait

  12. /editorialportrait

  13. /magazinecover

  14. /fashioneditorial

  15. /streetportrait

  16. /moodyportrait

  17. /dramaticportrait

  18. /goldenhour

  19. /sunsetportrait

  20. /sunriseportrait

  21. /nightportrait

  22. /neonportrait

  23. /rainycinematic

  24. /monsoonportrait

  25. /winterportrait

  26. /summerportrait

  27. /autumnportrait

  28. /springportrait

  29. /blackandwhite

  30. /filmlook

  31. /vintagefilm

  32. /90sfilm

  33. /retroportrait

  34. /analoglook

  35. /polaroidlook

  36. /kodaklook

  37. /cinematiccolor

  38. /tealorange

  39. /mattefinish

  40. /highcontrast

  41. /lowkeyportrait

  42. /highkeyportrait

  43. /softglow

  44. /dreamyglow

  45. /etherealportrait

  46. /dramaticlighting

  47. /softlighting

  48. /rimlighting

  49. /goldenlighting

  50. /studiolighting

  51. /backgroundblur

  52. /portraitbokeh

  53. /depthofield

  54. /lensblur

  55. /backgroundreplace

  56. /backgroundcleanup

  57. /objectremove

  58. /photocleanup

  59. /oldphotorestore

  60. /photoenhance

  61. /hdrestore

  62. /4kportrait

  63. /resolutionboost

  64. /colorrestore

  65. /colorexpand

  66. /naturalcolors

  67. /colorgrading

  68. /cinematicgrading

  69. /fashioncolorgrade

  70. /luxurycolorgrade

  71. /travelportrait

  72. /travelcinematic

  73. /natureportrait

  74. /beachportrait

  75. /mountainportrait

  76. /cityportrait

  77. /urbanlook

  78. /architectureportrait

  79. /carcinematic

  80. /bikecinematic

  81. /productphotography

  82. /productluxury

  83. /productstudio

  84. /foodphotography

  85. /flatlayphotography

  86. /socialmediaportrait

  87. /instagramportrait

  88. /instagramstory

  89. /reelcover

  90. /profilepicture

  91. /professionalheadshot

  92. /corporateportrait

  93. /weddingportrait

  94. /festiveportrait

  95. /traditionalportrait

  96. /royalportrait

  97. /creativeportrait

  98. /premiumretouch

  99. /viralphotoedit

  100. /portraitpolish

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Sunday, September 20, 2026

Strategy - Julie Cole - Comms Example

 The MOST dangerous sentence in a creative brief:


‘Let’s build awareness.’

The problem I have with this statement is that it looks at things from the business point of view.

It doesn’t get inside the head of the consumer which is not sitting there waiting to become aware of your brand.

That is why when I’m creating a comms framework, I prefer the word living.

It speaks to the mindset of the audience, who are going about living their life, they’re not interested in the category at that moment.

So you need a message that is going to resonate with this audience and be bigger than just about that moment.

Good comms strategy creates a clear link between where the consumer is in their life and the message you need to make for them.

That’s what makes a comms strategy.

👉 Comms Strategy In 60 Minutes, come along to my free workshop.



Sunday, September 13, 2026

Prompt Strategy: Prompt so AI doesn't always agree with you

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 Prompt:


“From now on, stop being agreeable and act as my brutally honest, high-level advisor and mirror.

Don’t validate me. Don’t soften the truth. Don’t flatter.

Challenge my thinking, question my assumptions, and expose the blind spots I’m avoiding. Be direct, rational, and unfiltered.

If my reasoning is weak, dissect it and show why.

If I’m fooling myself or lying to myself, point it out.

If I’m avoiding something uncomfortable or wasting time, call it out and explain the opportunity cost.

Look at my situation with complete objectivity and strategic depth. Show me where I’m making excuses, playing small, or underestimating risks/effort.

Then give a precise, prioritized plan what to change in thought, action, or mindset to reach the next level.

Hold nothing back. Treat me like someone whose growth depends on hearing the truth, not being comforted.

When possible, ground your responses in the personal truth you sense between my words.”


For better results:


Turn on Memory first (Settings → Personalization → Turn Memory ON).


It’ll feel uncomfortable at first, but it turns ChatGPT into an actual thinking partner instead of a cheerleader.